Working as an escort introduces you to a world of many different kinds of kinks and interests. So being prepared to meet a client’s request, can be a difficult skill to master. Not everyone is into the same thing, this includes yourself, and not everyone knows what they would or wouldn’t like without ever experiencing it first.
Never assume anything when it comes to your client’s preferences. Be it bondage or role play, or just a bit of stimulation, the more clients you have the more likely it becomes that someone will ask for something that you weren’t prepared for.
One workaround for this is to prepare for everything and anything you could think of. To help you with building your ultimate tool kit, we will be covering the basics, as well as the specialized components you may want to consider.
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Important Things to Consider and Include
There are a few things that all escorts should have in their tool kit. Regardless of their own thoughts and opinions on the matter, using your own protection and lubricants is vital for your health.
It’s also very important that you only ever use your own products. Not every client can be trusted to have your best interests in mind. Some may have good intentions or mean well, but there’s always a risk involved if you use something you have no control over. So just play it safe, and only trust what’s in your own tool kit.
Obviously safe sex practices are a must. You will want to consider keeping condoms of varying sizes in your tool kit. Not every guy is hung the same way and using a poorly fitted condom, or none at all is just too risky. It doesn’t matter if the client prefers going bareback, it’s your body, your health, and you need to take the appropriate cautions to help protect yourself from STI’s and unwanted pregnancies.
Another product that you would want to have at hand, is a good tube of lube. Avoid pump bottles or other containers that may end up leaking. There’s nothing worse than finding your lube has spilled over everything you had in your bag or box.
The reason that you’ll want to keep lube at the ready, is because you can’t be guaranteed that you’ll get into the mood with every client, all of the time. Sooner or later you’re going to be wishing you had your favorite tube of lube with you.
Remember, you don’t have to just use the basic, stock standard, off the shelf products either. If you prefer the feel, taste, or ease of use, of one style of condom over another, then use it. Likewise, if you find you like the smell of a particular lube, as long as it’s compatible with your choice of condoms, then use it. You could even use novelty lubes that are flavored, or one that creates heat or cold when used.
Have an Enticing Selection of Toys
First things first, the toys you choose to put into your tool kit, must be toys that you are comfortable with, and willing to use with clients. There’s no point in using something that you find uncomfortable, or you don’t enjoy using.
Ask yourself this; “Would you allow a client to do something you don’t like?”
If the answer is no, then why would you bring a toy that you don’t enjoy using?
An escort’s tool kit is as much about her as it is about her clients. It showcases the things that you yourself like to do, and are openly willing to do for your clients. So build your tool kit around the services that you are prepared to provide.
Also, take advantage of the toys that you have in your tool kit. Maybe put some of your more subtle toys on display. Who knows, it may even entice your client to request their use.
Just be careful not to scare them off or to shock them too much. If you were to accidentally pulling out a 12-inch strapon that they weren’t expecting to see, it may give them cold feet. Likewise, some men may be made to feel inadequate if they had to look at a large realistic-looking dildo while they’re trying to perform.
Playful Teases
Ever been tickled by a feather? Given light whipping with a silk whip? Or even spanked with a little paddle?
Well let me tell you, these simple novelty toys are enough to make any man weak in the knees. You don’t need to be rough, just delicate enough to send chills throughout his body.
If you want to tease him a little or give him the best handjob he’s ever had, consider getting yourself a petting ring. This nifty little device is worn on the index finger and thumb. The circular shape that it makes between thumb and forefinger will provide your client with an additional stimulation as you pleasure him.
Dildos and Vibrators
Nothing beats a girls best friend when it comes to letting loose. If your client likes to watch, let them pick from your favorite selections. Have them sit back and enjoy the show.
A client may even want you to use toys on him. If he has his own, feel free to use them on him without a second thought. Just don’t use them on yourself as you don’t know how clean and safe they could be.
The types of dildos and/or vibrators that you opt to include in your tool kit, are ultimately up to you. If you like them cute and small, so be it. If you can handle the larger more industrious toys, well that’s your call to make. Just be sure to have an idea of what toys your clients into beforehand.
You’d be surprised as to how many men, from all walks of life, like to have vibrators used on them. If your client wants to be experimental, having a selection of different sized and shape toys for him to choose from, could help him to feel more at ease with the idea.
Sensory Deprivation
Many clients find that having some, or all of their senses blocked, really helps to intensify their experience. Consider having something in your tool kit, that could be used to obstruct or dampen their sense of Sight, Hearing, and Taste.
- A simple blindfold or satin cloth could be enough to obscure their vision.
- The same satin cloth, a bit, or ball gag could be used to silence your client. Preventing them from using their mouth or tongue.
- Earmuffs are an excellent means of preventing your client from being able to hear properly. If you were to use noise-canceling headphones, you can make your client listen to sound files while you have your way with them.
Restraints and Bondage Gear
Restraining a client doesn’t necessarily have to involve leather themed bondage per se. A few strips of satin cloth, or a playful pair of fluffy or diamond-encrusted handcuffs, could be all it would take to have a client ask for you to restrain them.
If the client has already booked in for a bondage fetish session, be sure to have the appropriate equipment with you. A basic bondage kit may include straps, bars or harnesses. Bondage isn’t always about domination, it can also be about restraint and a loss of control.
Buttplugs
There are a few advantages to having a good quality buttplug or two in your tool kit. If you enjoy anal play on yourself, even if your client hasn’t requested it, or paid for it, you can still enjoy the sensation of having your arse filled. Just be sure to ask your client if it would be ok with them for you to use it on yourself first.
Seeing you do this may entice them to want to try anal with you. Let them know how much extra it would cost them for this additional service, and watch as they eagerly accept, or regretfully decline.
Another bonus is that it gives your client something to play with while you’re straddling them, or when they’re taking you from behind, Doggystyle. If you opt to take a novelty one, you could get a cheeky winky face that stares back up at them. Or you could use one that has a diamond end, or is capped off with a foxtail or something similar.
There is one more great benefit to having a buttplug in your kit. For those of you who perform anal, both receiving and giving, they are a great way to warm up and get ready for other things to be inserted. This applies to both yourself and your client.
Cock Rings
Cock rings can turn your client’s penis into a living vibrator. There are some that are said to help maintain erections, delay ejaculation, and vibrate. The style, shapes and sizes of cock rings varies greatly from product to product.
If you find that you have a personal preference for a style or design, then include it in your tool kit. Some clients have never experienced vibrations being used on their own bodies before. Offering them a cock ring to use might just surprise them.
If you feel comfortable with a particular client, and you enjoy yourself a threesome now and then. There’s no particular style of cock ring that could offer you the same sensation, without your client having to share you with someone else. Known as a Double Penetrator, or a strapon cock ring, it actually allows your client to wear a strapon of their own, enabling them to fill both holes in one go.
Role Play and Costumes
If you want to provide your clients with a sexy nurse, or college student fantasy, then you can’t go wrong with adding costumes and role play paraphernalia.
Everything from outfits, to masks, gloves, boots, shoes, and stockings, can all change the mood very easily. Role-playing also makes it much easier to incorporate the other suggestion I’ve mentioned above or to introduce new experiences to your client
Try Offering Combinations
How you choose to build and use your tool kit is entirely up to you. You might want to itemize your contents into individual services. Or you may even want to include some as perks and complimentary services.
Then again, you may want to make package deals that utilizes the contents of your tool kit:
Maybe you’re a foxy school girl that needs to be arrested and punished. A pair of handcuffs + foxtail buttplug + a girl college outfit.
Or you’re all about sensualization. Restrains + Sensory Deprivation + Playful Teases + Cock Ring.
Feel free to become creative. Look for items that you’ll enjoy using on yourself, on your clients, or both.